well....Just read it...

Life is like a big swing, hanging between the depths of happiness and sadness. As soon as we descend down the slope of sadness, we accelerate over the ever-feel-good acclivity of happiness. At times of distress, when we are down we slip over an abyss of emotional trauma and frustrations. One who can rise above the occasion, is the architect of many wins over sorrows. “No man is an Island unto himself” and I believe it without any single doubt..I take myself for an example..I can’t live in solitary, I need companion..But, of course, there will be times when I just want to be on my own..Well, anyway,I don’t do that so much, coz I can’t stand the feeling of being lonely…Remember, God created Eve for Adam, so that Adam would not be alone..but, then again..Sometimes, friends only bring you nothing, but more problems..Well, the history repeats itself many times..

Loneliness is not something that doesn't exist at all with any human being on earth. Every human being feels lonely in his life at some point or the other. It is, but natural to have such feelings, because that's what that makes us all human and that is why we are as we are.. We ourselves are responsible for our self-defined gloominess. This is because at times we really feel that we are uncared for or feel someone doesn't understand us…wow..that sounds so pathetic..

Sometimes we over analyze real life situations and have this growing sense of self pity inside us…We keep ourselves away from others, hoping that our loneliness will heal everything…Anyway, I don’t see how could that be possible? The truth might not always be true if we touch our heart and see. Its just that our expectations in life and from people around us or circumstances that we are facing, have got the better of us. If there would have been no expectations from anyone, the world would have been a much better place to be. If there would have been no expectations, not many people would have had an aching heart. If it wouldn't have been for unreasonable expectations not many couples would have divorced each other.

Disappointment is unavoidable, you’ll always find yourself feeling down for many reasons in this life..But, there’s always more than one ways to deal with it..Like, when you give something, don't expect anything in return. When our mother gave birth to us, she never expected that we will give birth to her. She just fulfilled her desire to raise a family and live for them. In the same way, let our actions make us live for our self and let not expectation screw up the major portion of your lives. Let us have the freedom and will power to express our love, affection and longingness for people whenever we feel. Let us not restrict our freedom of expression just because he or she is not responding the way we want them to.

Well all in all a little bit of loneliness is good for a self analysis to keep a check over your actions. Introspection always make you communicate with the innerself. But too much of introspection can make u scale the altitude of self pity. So show restrain at the right time.

p/s..I can't find the best title for this one, "loneliness", that sounds so corny..Alone again, Naturally? that's a title of my fav.old song..hemmm...Well, who cares anyway..You've read everything why bother bout the title???hehehe

2 comments:

  1. Anonymous said...
     

    hmmmphhhh.....

  2. XiGorX said...
     

    napa Jer, macam terasa sikit?
    hehehe

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