So Damn Busy..........

Arghhh...Been quite busy lately, preparing my student's notes for next semester..I hardly have time to check my blog and entertain my friends on my chatterz zone..hope they'd understand..ahaks...Well, nothing much to say, I just hate this last minute work..Don't blame me, if I was asked to do this 2 weeks ago, I'd probably have done it by now..I guess this is what normally happens when you are working under someone who has the ultimate authority of command..Anyway, this is acceptable..I wasn't asked to climb the highest mountain to get this magic feather that can cure is just a simple task..but, next time, if you want me to do something, make sure you inform me in that way, I'll be more productive..hehehe..Well, that's all for now..I hope I won't be too busy anymore by next week..Opss..Damn, What am I talking about? The new semester starts next week..Damn..I hate my new subjects..Especially the Airlines ticketing and reservation..I would trade it for marketing subjects if any of them want to...Goshhh...I'll be dead meat teaching that subject...

When married men talk about their wives...

I was a little bit tense today...I've been trying to find some materials for my R&T class for next semester, been asking around the lecturers, but none of them could really provide me with what I really need..So, my colleague and I went for some coffee at a nearby restaurant..Shortly after that, we were joined by another 2 colleagues, one of them is our's ok, he's like a good friend to me anyway..

At first we talked about the notes and everything about the college, when suddenly the topic changed into "my wife" and "married"..well, apparently, I am the only one who is not married yet, so I don't have anything to add to their funny conversations....

well my conclusion, after hearing to their sad but damn funny stories..

I married Miss Right.....I just didn't know her first name was Always.
No matter, even if you win an argument, you are always wrong, and she's always right..and that, you need to learn to accept the blame..(man!!!...)

Losing a wife can be my case, it was damned near impossible.
A day without the wife around is heaven for them..hehehe..I wonder why?

A man complaining to a friend: "I had it all; money, a beautiful house, a big car, the love of a beautiful woman...then...pow!...It was all gone!" "What happened?" asked the friend. " wife found out..." and the wife controls everythings..

Wife: Let's go out and have some fun tonight. Husband: Okay, but if you get home before I do, leave the hallway light on. (means, it's ok, lets just stay at home..I wouldn't enjoy it with you around...)

Women will never be equal to men until they can walk down the street bald and still think they are beautiful...(my friends is bald and he thinks that, and I think I look ok ok la...hehehe)

If your wife and a lawyer were drowning and you had to choose, would you go to lunch or to a movie? (married man doesn't even bother to look...emm, that's a little bit too much..don't you think so..?)

A man is incomplete until he is married.....after that, he's finished...(His life will be controlled by the wife, and he has no say..)

Marriage is a three ring circus: 1. engagement ring 2. wedding ring 3. suffering
(well, this is funny, and i think it's quite true...)

A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?" His father replied, "I don't know, son, I'm still paying for it." (how come they look at it that way..?)

A couple was having a discussion about family finances. Finally the husband exploded, "If it weren't for my money, the house wouldn't be here!" (and the wife always question them, why they spend so much money on the golf club, new handphones, gadgets and everything..)

Married life is very frustrating. In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens. In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.

When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing: either the car is new or the wife is.

Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something she said. After marriage, he will fall asleep before she's finished."

Emmm...I'll make sure that I will only get married if I'm completely ready..and it will take a long time..hehehe

Boozy Night...

eh...where's....? emmm...never mind la...

We decided to have a regular night out, starting off in our watering hole, and then moved to another bar in town. The various drink taken cannot all be remembered but suffice to say there was a vast quantity taken, and it was fun to see some friends starting to loosen up thier buttons...hehehe...Man, these friends really know how to have fun..I wonder, why I can only see it now..Reserve..maybe...hehehe

Later on that night, after we have sung almost all the songs that we know how to sing in the first place we went to.. (not me, them folks..hehehe), we decided to hop to another bar for the opportunity to get even drunker..Well, all I wanna do was to dance..not so much into drinking anymore..but..It was hard to resist and hard to reject the offer from these good friends who paid for the booze...ughhh..It was up until closing time, only then we left, I was not that drop down and puking drunk, but at least my unconscious mind knows when I'm drunk, I'm not supposed to drive..hehehe..Looking forward for something healthy to do in the future..I think all the booze are shortening my life span on this planet earth...

That's all folks...

Start Losing

We are a society that overall is lazy compared to few years back.. We have so many convenience in our everyday lives, and all the other things that make our life easier, that we are gaining more weight than ever..."We" as in you and me..alright..Well, I'm not that big anyway, but I'm starting to feel uncomfortable with my size..Yeah...Since when do I care so much about it..I've been feeding myself with all the stuffs that people say are fattening...Don't blame me..Blame them for providing us with all the convenience...

Say for instance, fast food....Ooo Love em very much...very convenient yet very unhealthy. Sure fast food places now serve salads...Emm, Do they really serve salads? well, yeah..the coleslaw..?hehehe... But have you looked at the number of calories in some of their salads. It's not much less than some of the other foods...In other way of saying it, there's no difference..

When was the last time you didn't look for the closest parking spot...OO Man!!!!If possible, I wouldn't even want to walk..See, all these things are turning us into some bunch of lazy assess...Again, don't blame me..

Convenient packaged foods...These are designed to make dinner/lunch even breakfast easy and nutritious. But what are all the preservatives doing to our bodies?? They add to your extra baggage..We eat so many sugars and preservatives in our "healthy" foods that we are killing ourselves with fat and new diseases that are yet unknown..Talking about diseases, luckily I don't have any, but...Hypertension...Sounds better, than calling it by its other name..HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE...Oooouh...

Exercise, even this has been designed for convenience. Healthy ways to lose weight are replaced by diet pills, lose weight in 30 days programs. Yes, there a couple that have stood time and still advocate losing weight slowly...Hahaha, I'm suppose to be on this diet program, I was supposed to drink this diet drink everday to supplement my meals, but, I guess, I'm not that discipline..

I need to forget all of he convenient ways to live and start with real healthy ways. Eating whole foods that aren't processed and filled with preservatives and additives my body doesn't need. Find the farthest parking spot and walk. Forget the car and walk to a store. Plan a healthy exercise plan that I will actually participate in on an ongoing basis. Losing weight is not easy. But is a goal to be achieved..Since, I have this big challenge coming up..I'm positive about this..I will not be the one who's buying the chivas..hehehe...

Us Again

What your future holds...?

Your life is based on what you decide it to be, for instance, your choices and determination all has an effect on how you excel forward in your life. In fact, you will always continue to move on forward no matter what you do in your life..It's just that, you don't realize it, because, you see others whom you think are much better or more successful than you..True..we are all unaware and we can't predict on what is to come...Even the fortune teller couldn't exactly tell...

Knowing what is out there in the world is one thing, going out and progressing in means on gaining knowledge on what information you wish to discover to find something to equipped yourself is more important. Influences play a big role in one's life, arrogance and confidence is how we find ourselves to either thrive and prosper, or fall and diminish into a world of loneliness and misery but, before all of that, everybody must know that there will be fortune and challenges in our lives that we must face sooner or later.

I have to admit that I'm scared and i refuse to make a decision that could impact my future. To me it feels like if u make the decision to take classes or go to a 5 years course of studies,then whatever you are learning about is what you're gonna do for the rest of your life. I'm a man and believe me, I like to change my mind ALOT! Well, don't be like me, coz, I fought against my passion and always end up feeling less satisfied..It doesn't matter anymore..Our future were supposed to be UNLIMITED...
It isn't easy
being so in love with you
and not being able to see you everyday.
There are times
when i'd give anything
just to be able
to gaze into your eyes
or hold you in my arms,
even for a few minutes.

I always feel incomplete,
like a part of me is missin,
when we're not together.
I know that, right now,
this is how things have to be,
but that doesn't make it
any easier to bear.
Everyday without you
just remind me of the joy
you add to my life,
joy that I'm missing.... a lot.

So don't forget that I love you,
that I'm thinking of you,
and that I'm counting
every minute
until we're togetehr again.

Apples and Wine

I know it's against the Ten Commandments for bloggers to post an entry which is taken from another blog..even if it is your own..well, forgive me..I'm so not in the mood of cracking my brain to find the best possible entry for today..So, this is taken from my friendster's, I thought it doesn't exist anymore...Well anyway...the story of apples and wine...

Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.

The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree. Now Men....Men are like a fine wine. They begin as grapes and it's up to women to stomp the sh*t out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.

Whichever they are, men..make sure that you're picking the right apple..Or, if it's not, it's never too late to pick another one..hehehe


Basil Valdez

You give me hope,
The strength, the will to keep on;
No one else can make me feel this way
And only you
Can bring out all the best I can do;
I believe you turn the tide
And make me feel real good inside.

You pushed me up
When I'm about to give up;
You're on my side when no one seems to listen
And if you go,
You know the tears can't help but show
You'll break this heart and tear it apart;
Then suddenly the madness starts

It's your smile,
Your face, your lips that I miss,
Those sweet little eyes that stare at me
And make me say,
I'm with you through all the way.

'Cause it's you
Who fills the emptiness in me;
It changes ev'rything, you see,
When I know I've got you with me

You pushed me up
When I'm about to give up;
You're on my side when no one seems to listen
And if you go,
You know the tears can't help but show
You'll break this heart and tear it apart;
Then suddenly the madness starts

It's your smile,
Your face, your lips that I miss,
Those sweet little eyes that stare at me
And make me say,
I'm with you through all the way.

'Cause it's you
Who fills the emptiness in me;
It changes ev'rything, you see,
When I know I've got you with me.

It's your smile,
Your face, your lips that I miss,
Those sweet little eyes that stare at me
And make me say,
I'm with you through all the way.

'Cause it's you
Who fills the emptiness in me;
It changes ev'rything, you see,
When I know I've got you with me.

It was an unexpected love!!!! or should i say a short but senseful love affair.hmm... whatever! all I know is that I've never been into this kind of relationship. She was a nice and sweet girl, I've never expected to fall in love with her for the fact that she has someone in her life(live in partner) but it all started when they're having difficulties in life that got into the point of giving space among themselves but stil living in the same roof!! but I wasn't expecting to be her crying shoulder all I want is to listen to whatever circumstances she's having at that time.

we go out together because we like the company of each other. Were really good friends. Time past when she started texting me sweet words and making me special but I always ignored those because of her status but when she told me that she's not with the guy anymore, only then i said yes to her, considering she's not my type coz im particular with my ideal girl, but I have feelings towards her I really dont understand why I fall for her... maybe that was called love coz when u love someone u'll accept her as what she is.

Judgment time had come. She was with the guy still.. but without my knowledge I just found out when I texted her and she's not the one replying but the guy.. giving me hurtful words that made me cry (no I'm not) I thought it was the end of our affair but she told me to hold on because she really loves me but confusion was my enemy, and I realized she wasn't meant for me but to someone else so I let her go to make it easy for her, and for me too. I dont want her to have nothing at the end. Eventhough we parted ways when I made this tough decision, she would stil be a part of my life and I will never forget it.

Be Strong Bobby

Bobby is suddenly sick again today...He is now in SAMC..I've nothing else to say, I'm so sad..I just want him to get well..completely..and hope the doc will be able to get rid of the parasites..

this was last week before he got sick...

Same day, we went to SAMC for Rex's monthly check, 3 days after that, bobby got sick...

When he was but a little puppy, he loved to do that..

This was when I first took him...I miss him being so playful and happy...

Start to Appreciate...

Have you ever felt totally disillusioned with life? Ever felt that things were so bad they cannot possibly get any worse? When everything seems to be against you..Life is cruel..

The cruel truth is, it can get worse. This is by no means a reason for you to get even more depressed. Rather, why not appreciate and give thanks for what you still have? Rather than let the bad things get you down, it is better to focus on the positives instead.

Maybe you lost your car, like I lost mine, once.... At least you still have your house, and your legs. If you lost an arm, at least you still have the other. Maybe your business or career failed. At least you still have your family, and your life. The list goes on, you get the idea.

Focus on the positives. Appreciate and take care of what you have while you still have them. Life might not seem so bad anymore then...So cherish whatever you have, you'll make your life much easier to live..

A Box full of kisses...

Read this one silently..

The story goes that some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy."

The man was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found out the box was empty. He yelled at her, stating, "Don't you know, when you give someone a present, there is supposed to be something inside? The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and cried, "Oh, Daddy, it's not empty at all. I blew kisses into the box. They're all for you, Daddy."

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.

Only a short time later, an accident took the life of the child. It is also told that her father kept that gold box by his bed for many years and, whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each one of us, as humans beings, have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses... from our children, family members, friends, and God. There is simply no other possession, anyone could hold, more precious than this.

Share your Love, Share you Heart...

A friend of mine sent spiritual stories over my email, and I have to admit that I am indeed so touched and moved after reading them....These stories are good for you, so I am being generous enough to share some of them with you..Sharing is caring, right..hehehe..

One day a young man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect. There was not a mark or a flaw in it. Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his beautiful heart.

Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and said "Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine." The crowd and the young man looked at the old man's heart. It was beating strongly, but full of scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in, but they didn't fit quite right and there were several jagged edges. In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces were missing. The people stared -- how can he say his heart is more beautiful, they thought? The young man looked at the old man's heart, saw its state and laughed. "You must be joking," he said. "Compare your heart with mine, mine is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears."

"Yes," said the old man, "yours is perfect looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love we shared. Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other person hasn't returned a piece of his heart to me. These are the empty gouges --giving love is taking a chance. Although these gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"

The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart, and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old man with trembling hands. The old man took his offering, placed it in his heart and then took a piece from his old scarred heart and placed it in the wound in the young man's heart. It fit, but not at the edges. The young man looked at his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from the old man's heart flowed into his. They embraced and walked away side by side.

How sad it must be to go through life with a whole heart.


Work like you don't need the money.
Love like you've never been hurt.
Dance like nobody is watching.

Love and Time, and the Feelings...

I just wanna share you this story..I guess, its true...Sometimes we tend to forget or neglect things or people around us..Well, I shouldn't explain more, you'll understand me when you have finished reading this story..Written by an Unknown Author..So I did not get to acknowledge him...

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived.. Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all repaired their boats and left.

Love wanted to persevere until the last possible moment. When the island was almost sinking, Love decided to ask for help. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said "Richness, can you take me with you?" Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!" "I can't help you Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked for help, "Sadness, let me go with you." "Oh....Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself."

Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her!

Suddenly there was a voice, "Come Love, I will take you." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that he even forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went his own way.

Love realizing how much he owed the elder, asked Knowledge, another elder. "Who helped me?" "It was Time," Knowledge answered. "Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?" Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because, only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

We hang around with people that we think are cool, and we feel as important whenever we are with them..It happens all the time, the friends (so called friends) are always there to give you excuses when you are indeed in need of their help..and out of nowhere, someone whom you never realize before, eventhough he has always been there in your life, come up to offer you his helping hands...Come on guys, be nice to everyone..Do to everyone, what you want them to do to you...

Are u getting anything here..? have to read again la...hehehe

My Pledge....

When I woke up this morning, Bobby was still very weak..I have to carry him to the bathroom so that he can do his business there..I was contemplating, whether to call in for MC, and stay home to care for Bobby, or just go to work anyway..Ohh, that was like making a choice between life and death....But, damnn!!..It's exam week..There's no way my DOS will let me do that..Unless I say, someone in my family members passed away..Ooohh..Hell no, that's like cursing already..The least I can do was, forced him to eat and drink the glucose..I was determined to get him to the vet if he was not getting any better by lunch time..

After the exam, I hurried back to the staff room, hand over the paper and ran down to my car..I was really scared, anything might happen to an unattended sick puppy, I know, he'll get depressed, and since he was starving, he might...O man...Cheeisssh..What am I thinking..Bobby is going to be just fine.. I dropped by to buy something for lunch, my favourite nasi campur in Gaya Street..and off I go,,Driving back home seemed to be so long, with all the traffics..Anyway, I managed to get home within 30mins..that was quite fast..thanks to the loud musics,at least they kept my wild imaginations away..

As I opened the door, I almost cried..There in front of me, were Bobby and Rex..with thier wagging tails..I bent on my knees and hugged both of them..and to my surprised, Booby was sniffing my lunch..So I offered him some food..Man, it was just so plain wonderful to see him eat like he has never did before..I just stand there and watched him finished everything..Well, I know, God has answered my prayer, and now, Bobby is getting well..I know, very soon..He will be running around again like he used to be..

From this day on, I have pledge to myself that I will....
* give food and water to my puppies in a clean dish everyday.
* make sure my puppies have shelter from hot, cold, and wet weather.
* make sure my puppies see a veterinarian for shots and checkups.
* provide a collar and ID tag for my puppies to wear at all times...(ya I know, it sounds a bit crazy...:) )
* keep my puppies from running loose in the neighborhood.
* make sure my puppies get obedience training so they'll behave well.
* keep my puppies clean and brushed and lookin' good!
* spend time everyday with my puppies playing, or going for a walk.
* always protect my puppies from people or things that might hurt them(esp.that Butak Man)

This is my promise to you Bobby and Rex...I promise to take care of my puppies during their whole lifetim... I will teach them to trust me by treating them with love and respect. I will be kind, gentle, and generous to them at all times. I will be responsible for providing them with the things that they need to be healthy and happy. I am making this commitment to my puppies...(hope I can fulfill these...ughhhh...hehehe)

Poor little Bobby...

Well, previously I've told you about my puppies, a Golden Retriever, and a German Spitz..Anyway, Bobby the Spitz is sick..He has been so sick since Friday..Luckily my friend was at home when he was vomitting, and thanks to him for bringing Bobby to seek for immediate attention from the vet..Now, it has been 3 days, and he is getting very weak, coz he doesn't want to eat..Damn parasite...Bobby suffer from the tick fever, and it is quite severe...Well, your puppy cannot explain his symptoms, and thus, it is your responsbility to see his first sign of illness..I should be grateful coz I have a friend who loves dogs as much as I do...

Bobby is special, and he is part of my life..Whenever I come home after work, he will be waiting for me at the door with his wagging tail and of course looking for his favourite food chicken...He is the center of everything in my life, and of course Rex is, too..and would give anything to make him feel better again.. He would put his head on my lap, or sit by my side to watch TV..He is a very loyal companion,and I love him more than I love myself..He is still a puppy running off with socks and anything else he can find and then play a game, catch me if you can with his best buddy Rex..

I pray that he will recover completely and be his old self... I wouldn't mind if he wants to go and sleep on the sofa, or jump on the table when I'm having my meals..anything at all..I just can't stand not having him around. It's like missing a family member...Man...!! I never thought I would be this attached to a dog...Well, I consider him as a family member, not a dog..

well....Just read it...

Life is like a big swing, hanging between the depths of happiness and sadness. As soon as we descend down the slope of sadness, we accelerate over the ever-feel-good acclivity of happiness. At times of distress, when we are down we slip over an abyss of emotional trauma and frustrations. One who can rise above the occasion, is the architect of many wins over sorrows. “No man is an Island unto himself” and I believe it without any single doubt..I take myself for an example..I can’t live in solitary, I need companion..But, of course, there will be times when I just want to be on my own..Well, anyway,I don’t do that so much, coz I can’t stand the feeling of being lonely…Remember, God created Eve for Adam, so that Adam would not be alone..but, then again..Sometimes, friends only bring you nothing, but more problems..Well, the history repeats itself many times..

Loneliness is not something that doesn't exist at all with any human being on earth. Every human being feels lonely in his life at some point or the other. It is, but natural to have such feelings, because that's what that makes us all human and that is why we are as we are.. We ourselves are responsible for our self-defined gloominess. This is because at times we really feel that we are uncared for or feel someone doesn't understand us…wow..that sounds so pathetic..

Sometimes we over analyze real life situations and have this growing sense of self pity inside us…We keep ourselves away from others, hoping that our loneliness will heal everything…Anyway, I don’t see how could that be possible? The truth might not always be true if we touch our heart and see. Its just that our expectations in life and from people around us or circumstances that we are facing, have got the better of us. If there would have been no expectations from anyone, the world would have been a much better place to be. If there would have been no expectations, not many people would have had an aching heart. If it wouldn't have been for unreasonable expectations not many couples would have divorced each other.

Disappointment is unavoidable, you’ll always find yourself feeling down for many reasons in this life..But, there’s always more than one ways to deal with it..Like, when you give something, don't expect anything in return. When our mother gave birth to us, she never expected that we will give birth to her. She just fulfilled her desire to raise a family and live for them. In the same way, let our actions make us live for our self and let not expectation screw up the major portion of your lives. Let us have the freedom and will power to express our love, affection and longingness for people whenever we feel. Let us not restrict our freedom of expression just because he or she is not responding the way we want them to.

Well all in all a little bit of loneliness is good for a self analysis to keep a check over your actions. Introspection always make you communicate with the innerself. But too much of introspection can make u scale the altitude of self pity. So show restrain at the right time.

p/s..I can't find the best title for this one, "loneliness", that sounds so corny..Alone again, Naturally? that's a title of my fav.old song..hemmm...Well, who cares anyway..You've read everything why bother bout the title???hehehe

What are you thinking?

Well, I have to write something different today…The question this time, from the men's side of the table, what should you do when the women you're with asks you, "What are you thinking?" For those of you who have girlfriend(s), or perhaps married, I’m sure, this question might be your bread and breakfast everyday…I just don’t understand, why is it important for them to really know what we are thinking..Coz sometimes, we could just stare blankly and shut up without even thinking of anything..

Every male in the world has had to deal with this question, which is more often than not uncorked at entirely inappropriate times, such as when you are watching sports, locked in a passionate embrace, or simply driving. Regardless of what you're doing, you must come up with a complete and satisfactory answer, or stand accused of Hiding Your True Feelings. Which means, of course, you'll spend the next week pretending to be sorry. So you've got to come up with something. And it had better be good. Hehehe, sometimes I find it funny, well, even if I’m thinking about something, I would not want to tell her anyway..Coz, what I’m thinking might not be best told in certain situations..So the lame answer of “nothing” would be the best for that moment..

Now, the obvious question here is, WHY do women want to know what we're thinking? Simple, they assume we're thinking in the first place. Hard to believe, but there it is. Why on earth would they think that? Well, go up to a woman and ask her what she is thinking. She will tell you everything, she can go on and on and on again…and after she finished everything, she’ll start blaming you for not being expressive, and for your lack of attention towards her…

Women are always thinking, and often about practical things. Men, on the other hand, are actively thinking for about five minutes out of every hour (usually not in sequence). So, at best, you have a one in 12 chance of catching a man actually having a thought. What are we really thinking about? Lots of things actually,like… where to go after this? What to eat? Who’s gonna win the football match? the cute girls…the drop dead gorgeous receptionist..all sort of thoughts..Now, how would you expect us to tell this truthfully…?hehehe…

Despite the overwhelming evidence that men, in fact, are almost never thinking, women will still demand to know their innermost thoughts. In a way, it's touching, women are expressing faith that, if prodded long enough and frequently enough, they may yet boost the number of times we think in an hour. And they will. Unfortunately, most of what we'll be thinking is "stop asking me what I'm thinking." And that's just going to get us in trouble.

The best way to keep a woman from constantly asking you what you are thinking is to have a ready, pre-memorized answer for the times that she does. You can always try this one here…

"I'm thinking that tonight it'd be nice to stay at home and watch this new CD I bought together with my special girl..” Well, if she’s not flattered, you will hear something like…”ughhh…punya boring tu…!!!” Hemmm.. or maybe..

“I’m thinking of how much I love you…”..Sounds better..Well..Good Luck then…

Lust....LOve or Desire...??

The exam is going on, and I'm bored again..So, after giving it a deep thought, and considering all the pro and cons of my acts, I have finally decided to update my entry anyway...You don't have to monitor the students all the time, it's easy to tell if they are cheating..Been there, done that...

I had a conversation with a friend yesterday, or I would rather call it, a debate..Coz, most of the time we were arguing on this matter..Is it really love or desire..? Or Desire to make love (lust)...Well, I should have known that I should have not be discussing anything with him, coz I'll end up either feeling mad, bad or irritated..Anyway, despite all the nonsense he told me, I do like the part when he said.."lust is remarkably easy, but love is a different story.." That statement didn't surprise me, I mean..duhh...It's not easy for you to really fall in love with someone, can always satisfy your lust anywhere, anytime..Gosh..That sound so dirty ..(as on of my colleagues always say...Ewww..that sounds sooooo dirty...Yeah right Freda...)

I know the difference between lust and love. This is lust, with all its heady, consuming passion. With my girlfriend I have love, caring, sweet and good (but not as intoxicating). How can I lust after one girl and love another? Why is lust such a powerful emotion ... so skilled at manipulating your rational mind? How do other long-distance couples do it? How do they stay lust-free and uncomplicated? I've experienced long distance relationship, and it has proven to be so complicated and very challenging...Clearly, my love for my girlfriend and the strength of our relationship isn't enough to kill the lust. I don't want to screw up things between us. Well, anyway, I'm talking about my situation last time, when I still have my girlfriend with me..I'm not talking about broken hearted people here...Just to let you know that, I believe in both love and desire, but if you have lust...that will put your relationship in jeopardy...Errmmm,, don't mind me..I'm just running out of ideas of what to write..hehehe...

How can you mend a broken heart....

Let's talk some lovey dovey things today..It's not that I'm in love, I just feel like writing about it..I can't recall exactly when was the last time I feel so in love...Could it be last year?? Nay' it's okay, I managed to get through it, even though I was totally devastated..But now, I'm as happy as could be..I wish to share with you some thoughts and point of views, perhaps, it might be useful for you too...

Being heartbroken is a pain that no one can understand until you have experienced it for yourself. You obviously have, therefore are aware of how fragile your heart is right now. Healing a broken heart will take time, but is not impossible, though it may feel that way at the time. It is never an easy process to go through, you need a lot of guts and will power to overcome your sorrows. If you wanna cry, go ahead and cry like a baby, it's perfectly normal for you to feel sad and cry after a breakup..You have invested so much in that relationship, you've invested your everything,and now you are going through a sad and painful withdrawal..with "zero" return..I did not cry..Nor do I grieve..I was just so shocked that I can't do anything..It was so sudden, and there's nothing I can do about it.."it took all the strength I have just not to fall apart, I'm trying hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart..." (I will survive by Cake)..I kept on singing that song, and I feel so disgusted with myself..Luckily, my grievious moment doesn't last that long..4 months...? Then I shaved my hair....hehehehe

It is important for you to accept the fact that you and your 'ex' is no longer together, and that you have gone into your own separate ways..This is the first step which is actually the hardest thing to do..How can you just forget it like that..I have been with this girl for almost 2 years, well actually we've been into an 'on and off' relationships, only then, we decided to get serious...But....emm..It was another mistake..

You have to fight the thoughts that you are the one to be blame for the end of your relationship..If you have that thought, You will never be able to get away from that hazardous area..Keep yourself occupied, and go out with your friends, this will distract your mind from going into that black zones again..If you catch yourself unable to function due to constantly thinking about your ex or repeatedly calling or visiting him or her for another chance, then chances are you are suffering from love addiction and should seek counseling...hehehe..

I know how fragile my heart is, and I'm not ready to experience the new short term happiness, but long term sufferings..If I am going to be in love again, I must make sure that I am not doing it on a rebound..

Alrite, my students are almost finish with their exam..I should stop for now..I'll come up with better one, next time...